Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, and if you’re dating a Luo (or just want to surprise someone special), English sometimes doesn’t cut it. There is a specific rhythm and soul to Dholuo that makes romantic gestures feel more authentic and deeply personal.
Whether you’re a “diaspora kid” reconnecting with your roots or someone lucky enough to be loved by a Luo, mastering a few romantic phrases will go a long way.
Here is your essential guide to Luo romance, featuring vocabulary you can practice right now on the LearnDholuo web app.
1. The Opening Move: Compliments
In Dholuo, beauty isn’t just about looks; it’s about a “good” or “fine” essence. The classic way to tell someone they are beautiful or handsome is:
- “In jaber” — You are beautiful/handsome.
If you want to take it a step further and speak directly to their importance in your life, try:
- “In e chunya” — You are my heart.
- “In dhako ma e chunya” — You are the woman of my heart.
2. The Big Three: “I Love You”
You probably already know Aheri, but knowing how to express the depth of that love is what sets you apart.
- “Aheri” — I love you.
- “Wabiro bedo kanyakla nyaka chieng'” — We shall be together forever.
- “Mana an gi in ji ariyo” — Just the two of us.
3. Practical Romance: Gifts and Affection
Valentine’s Day usually involves a gift. In Dholuo, a present or gift is called chiwo. If you’ve prepared a surprise for your partner, say:
- “Anyiewoni chiwo” — I bought you a present.
And if you’re looking for a cozy moment at the end of the date:
- “Koyo chama, kwaka” — I’m feeling cold, hug me.
4. Taking the Next Step
For those planning a truly life-changing Valentine’s Day, the video outlines how to ask the big question. There are two primary ways to ask for someone’s hand in marriage:
- “Be ibiro nyuoma?” — Will you marry me?
OR
“Be ibiro kenda?” — Will you marry me? - “Adwaro kendi” — I want to marry you
OR
“Adwaro nyuomi” — I want to marry you
Why Learning These Phrases Matters
Language is the shortest bridge to someone’s heart. While a bouquet of roses is nice, being able to whisper “In e chunya”(You are my heart) shows a level of effort and cultural respect that money can’t buy.
Master Your Pronunciation with LearnDholuo
Reading these phrases is a start, but hearing and repeating them is how you truly learn. I built the LearnDholuo web app specifically for people who want to bridge the gap between “knowing a few words” and “speaking with confidence.”
Ready to impress your Jaber? Click here to start Lesson 1 on LearnDholuo.com — No download required!